04/27 1 Thessalonians 2:10-12
You yourselves are our witnesses — and so is God — that we were pure and honest and faultless toward all of you believers. 11 And you know that we treated each of you as a father treats his own children. 12 We pleaded with you, encouraged you, and urged you to live your lives in a way that God would consider worthy. For he called you into his Kingdom to share his glory.
We must first learn to be the person that the Lord Jesus called. Forgiven, focused and forgiving. This is step one. Learn to be first and then learn to do. Do what He says, be who you are and let Him have control of you.